To experience the success you desire (health, wealth, friendships, etc.) your day-to-day actions must be consistent with your personal picture of success. Derek Rydall, author of the book Emergence: Seven Steps for Radical Life Change, explained in an interview how to do this using visualization.
Take a moment now to try this out.
Take each of the qualities you wrote down (one at a time) and ask yourself what are the people, places, things, and activities, that activate that feeling or characteristic of being?
Once you have done this you need to begin to consciously engineer those people, places, and things that represent where you want to be into your life. By doing this consistently you will surely move toward your ideal life.
Wishing you success in all aspects of life,
Founder & President
Smart Health, Wellness, & Performance, Inc.